Q & A with JV – 1

20 Jul

I have started my journey of social networking as ‘netizen’ on orkut couple of years ago. My orkut community (created by vipul) still holds special place in my heart for various personal reasons, too.  Many so called ‘hot’ issues had been discussed in detail over there, it was learn with fun. I cherish those memories more as unlike facebook, it was generally unpolluted interaction with normal readers from various places and background. 🙂

in orkut ‘era’ , i had initiated many threads. One of them was ‘Q & A with JV’.- circa 2008-2009. Where anyone can ask me ANY question to me in his or her mind. It can be philosophical to humorous. It could be on my work, life, passions, articles, attitude, hobbies and current affairs- ANYthing under the sky. (With basic courtesy intact, of course: P ) I am spending time on net not for just show off, but for genuine interaction with my readers, listeners, lovers n yes, yes..Critics too. 🙂

here on planetjv , i am reviving that beautiful experience of two –way communication. I am trying some of the questions asked to me and my replies to them on orkut thread then. Here are some samples to you. In future will try to put more from that thread and also try to answer many unanswered questions there.

Buddies, feel free to ask me. Kindly avoid repetitive questions please. So please keep a track of posts under ‘interaction’ category and my write-ups as well. Please be specific on question-of which genuine curiosity is the prime concern to me. Unless its really required, don’t elaborate question too long and try to limit maximum 2 questions at a time please. You can ask in GUJARATI or HINDI or ENGLISH; Whatever is comfortable to you. I shall answer in my natural ’khichadi’ language 😀 Funny questions are always welcome, but silly questions as always will be treated with my now famous (or infamous?) typical trademark be aware..but don’t beware 😉

now the question that i would like to ask you. I am not avid blogger or cyber-knight: P so, how can you send questions to keep the ball rolling? You can suggest me in comments. Is there any solution where you can put the questions on page and i can answer? If not. Let’s do it in simple way. PUT YOUR QUESTIONS UNDER COMMENTS HERE. Trust me- it will not be thrown in trash. But please tolerate me – as always i don’t find time to answer of selected questions quickly. have patience.

PLANETJV  is getting  around 1300+ hits in a day sometimes! A significant landmark for a regional language author that too in Gujarat-i guess. It’s not because of me, but because of your sincere love for me and my work. Thank you all. Hope to meet with your expectations with my best efforts and wish you all the very best and happy moments in life. sorry, sometimes i can’t reply all your comments, but i do read them all without fail.

so….here is first lot of Q & A with JV.

*Vimal : What is more powerful LUCK or HARD WORK ? explain it (not in only two words) .dont say ‘LUCK’ , dont say  ‘HARD WORK’ (and I am not in 10th or 12th std. student so dont think on suiside…)

 JV : hardwork blessed with luck ( its more than 3 words 😀 )

* Barkha : Wat wud u advice or do if ur daughter ( just assume huh..) being proposed by 1 of her classmate to go out for date. (she is just 15 yrs. old )

JV : she wil not seek my advice then 😉 [if i assume future after say 17-18 yrs 😛 ]

*Minal : What’s the fair argument towards as being ‘Vegetarian’? { I think u’re vegetarian 😛 } not the regular one as ” being  ahinsak”

JV : ya, i’m b honest eggetarian when out

sm scientists says dat our digestive system is more comfortable wth ‘animal fat’ i.e. non veg food…sm says our teeth is more likely to have veg food. its never ending story n v hav to accept co-existence of both type of ppl to keep check on reserve of food. both hav pros n cons…n ideally its matter of choice, situation n habit rather den religion n moral.

in lighter way, my close frnd n family doc – a gr8 doc n gem of a person dr. chirag matravadiya says dat v gujarati ppl eat more oil equivalent to meat !

simplest argument-which worked for many celebrities too is to think abt poor birds n animals which r cut down wth cruelty….a sight of dat scene surely disturb any sensitive being. v generally dont see how tasty non veg food is prepared, while eating it on table. ( dat applies to any hotel food too )

ideally, d message must b on d target n subtle. nt over d top like desi jivdaya zumbesh. u can find sm nice quotes frm ‘peta’ posters.

*Aakanksha :1)What is difference between ‘having sex’ & ‘making love’ (I think both r same…?)

2) What is Love & what is lust? What is true love?

3) What is commitment in relationship??

JV : all ur questions r answered by me in my various article on love n relationship..

 even though just in brief..(stree o mate hu etlo paxpati to kharo )

 [1] yes, both r same..but generally it has been believed that ‘making love’ is female perception of d act n ‘having sex’ is male perception of it …as female generally give 1st priority of feelings n man …well, another word starting by F its nt thumb rule. its true man like to hav gr8 bedroom pleasure, bt dey r very sensitive creatures too…n smtimes woman more stable in emotions.

 ‘making love’ is strictly wth sm1 u love deeply..close GF-BF or husband-wife or committed persons..having sex is bohemian attitude..wth anyone, anytime..

 well, sex itself is very interesting word ( ya word, abt act of course ) as ebvry1 on planet understands what it means bt it has no meaning at all except referring gender !

 [2] well, when u want to HAVE smthing constantly driven by desire n passion…its LUST.

&..when u want to GIVE smthing constantly driven by care n trust….its LOVE.

 mind well, love n lust r interwoven…inseparable in context of ‘male’ n ‘female’..n love is much more tough n complicated then poor beggar lust 😛

 [3] commitment is a moral (in marriage also legal) responsibility towards the partner-enriched by mutual trust, respect n of course joy of magical attraction. it cant b shld come frm within (then n then der r less chances of breaking it frivolously)

 in 2day’s era, i believe it must b viewed in larger context i.e. smtimes due to unavoidable situation it may stand on shaky ground temporarily. bt one must pursue overall long term picture of dat n think what he/she shld practically hav done in similar situation- rather then just enforcing moral preaching of idealism.

*Bhumika : 1 serious question… what do u think @ adopting a child… does it make relations complicated? specially when a family has 1 child of their own and then adopts a child, does that makes family relations complex? or it can work out with some efforts? its advisable from ur viewpoint or not?

JV : if both d children r young ones it’s easy to nurture dem..der may b sm future complications practically regarding ‘jaydad ka batwara’ type controversies bt if parents hav maturity n foresight it can b easily taken care of. Actually, in india adoption is taboo..While its fav celebrity hobby in developed countries as dey think its der moral duty to support a child by giving family warmth after bein well off materialistically. smtimes adoption can b dne wth clear demarcation line as..real child holds family heir position n adopted one aware as he has given social security (like saleem khan adopted a girl called arpita)…but in any case, economic stability is must.

* Mehnaz : Who is your favourite philosopher / whose work you like to read.

 JV : fvr8 philosopher..hmmm…rajneesh..all-in-one u know! 😉

*Vimal : Tame Rajkot ni Dhamsania college ma hata (BBA ma kadacha) tyare hu te j college ma hato (Bcom) tyare tamara price nu list notice board par mukatu hatu. Atyare pan tame ghana prices medvo cho. E vu kyu price che je tame medvava mago cho ? (pls be serious)

JV : a prize catch of beautiful girl’s dutyful heart ..(n i’m seriously funny abt it 😉 )

baki simple materialistic prizes ma jeni prize money highest hoy te..(n i’m damn serious abt it 😛 )

*Dhrumal : Any incident in professional life/career(in teaching profession or as columnist) where you had a strong ideological difference with those who are senior policy/decision maker (and have power/influence) & you are left with either to compromise with your ideology or to “Quit” & which option you chose?

JV : yes, i hav left my job as  young n successful principal .. a safe, legally protected, pensionable job on basis of strong ideological diffences n took dat decision within 10 seconds n implimented it within 24 hrs was easy as i was knowin n analysed much before dat if day wil wud b d right thing to do/..ema josh ni sathe hosh pan hatu.

* Nehal : તમે ક્યારેય રાઈટર્સ બ્લૉકનો અનુભવ કર્યો છે? જો હા, તો એવી સ્થિતિ કેટલો વખત રહે? એમાંથી બહાર આવવા શું કરો?
કે પછી રાઈટર્સ બ્લૉક માત્ર ફિક્શનના લેખકોને લાગુ પડે?

JV : koi pan creative person block no anubhav to kare j..pa6i fiction-non fiction to shu writer pan na hoy to y..

genarrlly e 2 rite aave evu anubhavyu 6e..koi concept already etlo nichovai gayo hoy ke navu kashu suze nahi ne bahar najar doaovvi pade e dur karva..athva persona;l life ma kashi guchvan hoy ne mind blank thai jay..

personally,e dur karva hu lakhu 6u..fikku mechenical lage pan bandh kari do to block vadhe baki thodi dheeraj…jab sawera hone ko hota hai tab raat sab se jyada kaali hoti hai ..inshallah! 

* Riyaz : how do u select the subjects for column?

JV :many many things..smtimes topic just flashed..smtimes sm frnd suggests it..smtimes frm experinces…smtimes i get inspired while reading/observing/listening/watching…baki koi fixed criterias banvya j nathi..genarlly..which i cud enjoy writing, interesting to readers..bas. 🙂


Posted by on July 20, 2011 in interaction, personal


53 responses to “Q & A with JV – 1

  1. Prasham H Trivedi

    July 20, 2011 at 12:44 PM

    Jay bhai, Who is your favorite villain-antagonist from movies and books and why?


    • sunil

      July 20, 2011 at 2:59 PM



  2. Hardip

    July 20, 2011 at 12:50 PM

    JV Straight from the heart…just for you..

    ” Aam to ganu badhu Jivya, pan haji aevu kaik rahi jaye chhe,….Je loko ne aem j mali jay chhe..”

    Is there any thing left in your heart u feel u should hve got it but unfortunately still hven’t got it…? And 1 simple que. What is the life worth lived…?? Doing what we should do or Doing what we want to do..?? & Hey, U rock,Dude..!:)


  3. Kaushik

    July 20, 2011 at 12:52 PM

    How is your relationship with God? I am Hindu by birth, but I dont know much about Hinduism. I have been staying in USA for almost 2 years now, and I love some concept of Christianity, and sometimes when I compare it with hinduism, it makes me more confuse. Would you pls suggest me some books which can help me to learn and understand Hinduism. I tried to read Geeta, but its kind of hard to understand. may be you can give me some online links for blogs or videos. your help would be highly appreciated.


  4. Harsh

    July 20, 2011 at 1:01 PM

    ફેસબુક પર તમારા નામનું જે ગ્રુપ છે એમાં એક ડોક બનાવીને ઓરકુટ જેવો જ થ્રેડ બનાવી શકાય.બાકી કોમેન્ટ વાળો આઈડીઓ સારો જ છે… 😉

    મારો સવાલ -> વધુ વાંચનને લીધે આવેલું જ્ઞાન આજુબાજુના લોકો ન પચાવી શકે ત્યારે તમારા પેલા લેખ જેવી સ્થિતિ આવે છે.’સમય થી આગળ રહેવું એ શ્રાપ જ છે.’ આવા સમયે શાહમૃગ બની જવું?કે જી-જાન લગાડીને લડી લેવું?

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  5. parth s thakar

    July 20, 2011 at 1:11 PM

    what are your views about the Show “MTV Roadies” and specially about his judge and producer “Raghu ram” ? If you are not watching it then plz go through a few episodes especially auditions then let me know…


  6. bhavesh

    July 20, 2011 at 1:13 PM

    i like this ab hum saval bhi kar shakte hai???


  7. Envy Em

    July 20, 2011 at 1:31 PM

    JV, 1 Q on your fav actor AB and to sm extent, mine2. I was 2 eager 2 C his BHTB but got disappointed with it. Does AB not think deep (which is his forte reading his blog) b4r signing such movies, which didnt stand as tall as him?


  8. Bhavesh

    July 20, 2011 at 1:49 PM

    beautifull but dumb girl?
    Ugly but intillegent girl?
    Beautifull and intelligent girl??


    • Nirali

      July 20, 2011 at 8:59 PM

      🙂 i guess u always want 2 girls. 😉


  9. Sushil

    July 20, 2011 at 2:23 PM

    have u ever been threatened to death?have u ever been threatened to death?


  10. maheshdesai

    July 20, 2011 at 2:30 PM


    what do you think about reservation(Quota system) in higher education???do we really need reservation in higher education(like IIT.IIM,post graduation after mbbs,engineer,etc…)????don’t u think reservation should be based on annual income rather than caste???

    thank you..


  11. Parth Joshi

    July 20, 2011 at 2:35 PM

    Kaya kaya magazine ( including digital magazines and other sites you regularly follow ) regular besis par vancho cho ? aevi kai book ke magazine jema thi tame sahu thi vadhu references lidha hase atyar sudhi ?
    5 all time favorite suspense or detective movies ( any language ) ?
    kaya newspaper ne ane kaya columnist ne regularly follow karo cho ?


  12. sunil

    July 20, 2011 at 2:55 PM

    jay bhai apna filmo parna lekha e filmono prachhar chhe k ………..


    • ketan lakhani

      July 25, 2011 at 11:29 PM

      ના એ ફિલ્મોનો પ્રચાર નથી,પણ ફિલ્મો નો પ્રસાર છે…………..Enjoy………baby…………!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


  13. Ajay Upadhyay

    July 20, 2011 at 3:27 PM

    જયભાઈ આપણા બે સવાલ :
    ૧. આટલી બધી સમય માંગી લેતી પ્રવૃતિઓ કરવા માટે તમે કેટલી તડજોડ કરો છો ? કઈ રીતે કરો છો સમય નું મેનેજમેન્ટ ? સુ એવું કરવા પાછળ કૈક જતું પણ કરવું પડે છે જેને ખરેખર તમે જતુ કરવા ઈચ્છતાં ના હોવ ?

    ૨. એક માં થી ૨ ક્યારે થવાના ? ( આ પ્રશ્ન તમારા અસંખ્ય ચાહકો વતી છે )


  14. Bhumika Shah

    July 20, 2011 at 3:45 PM

    @JV sir 🙂
    એ ઓરકુટ ના દિવસો અને આપની કોમ્યુનીટી માં આખો દિવસ ની વિચાર-વિમર્શ-ગપ્પા ને એવું બધું યાદ આવી ગયું!
    ખુબ ખુબ આભાર, ફરી થી આ મોસ્ટ ફેવરેટ ટોપિક શરુ કરવા માટે !

    મારો પ્રશ્ન એ છે કે ::
    ” શું લગ્ન બાદ સ્ત્રી માત્ર ફાઇનન્શ્યિલ સપોર્ટ માટે જ જોબ કરી શકે?
    સારું ભણેલી ગણેલી અને સારી જોબ કરતી હોવા છતાં જો સાસરિયું સધ્ધર હોય અને ફાઈનાન્શ્ય્લ જરૂરિયાત ના જ હોય તો – શું લગ્ન બાદ એને જોબ છોડવી જરૂરી હોય છે- એક આદર્શ પત્ની-વહુ -માતા બનવા?
    અને આ આદર્શ પત્ની-માતા -વહુ હોય છે કેવી? આજકાલ સિરિયલ્સ માં બતાવે એવી? “


    • Aakanksha

      July 20, 2011 at 7:57 PM

      Exact my thoughts bhums!!!! [and also feelings 😉 ]

      @ JV…

      My question is… Husband/bf or anyone doesn’t have right to decide about a girl’s career, except that girl herself, then shall she “obey” them? Just because she loves them?


    • KK

      July 21, 2011 at 4:17 PM

      બિલકુલ નહિ ….
      આજ ના જમાના માં જેમ પુરુષ career-oriented હોય છે એમ સ્ત્રી ને પણ પોતાના career બનાવવી હોય છે. ફક્ત “financial support માટે નહિ. અગર સાસરિયું આર્થિક રીતે સદ્ધર હોય તો પણ ફક્ત પોતાની career બનાવવા અથવા કઈ કરી દેખાડવા માટે પણ સ્ત્રી નૌકરી કરે એમાં કઈ ખોટું નથી. આદર્શ પત્ની બનવા માટે full-time housewife હોવું જરૂરી નથી.


      • Bhumika Shah

        July 21, 2011 at 5:09 PM

        @એકે …
        હજુ તો તમારી આ સોશિયલ લાઈફ માં શરૂઆત છે – આગે આગે દેખિયે હોતા હે ક્યાં …

        મારો સેકંડ ક્વેશ્ચન એ હતો કે “આદર્શ ” પત્ની એટલે?
        કેમકે હું “આદર્શ” ટેગ ના અસ્તિત્વ માં નથી માનતી!


        • KK

          July 21, 2011 at 8:16 PM

          આજ-કાલ ની એકતા કપૂર ની સેરીએલ્સ માં હોય એવી “આદર્શ” પત્ની હોય એના કરતા તો પત્ની ના હોય એ વધારે સારું.
          અગર પતિ-પત્ની બેસ્ટ ફ્રેન્ડસ બની ને રહે અને એક-બીજા ના મન ની વાત સમજે એના કરતા વધારે આદર્શ બીજું કોઈ રીલેશન નથી.


          • KK

            July 21, 2011 at 8:19 PM

            અને ફક્ત આદર્શ પત્ની જ શા માટે?
            અગર બન્ને એ સુખી રેહવું હોય તો પતિ પણ આદર્શ હોવો જોઈએ.
            ગાડા ના બન્ને પૈડાં સરખા હોય તોજ ગાડું આગળ ચાલે.
            તમારું શું કેહવું છે?


            • Aakanksha

              July 24, 2011 at 12:56 PM

              આદર્શ પતિની વ્યાખ્યા???????


            • KK

              July 25, 2011 at 11:05 AM

              આદર્શ પતિ ની વ્યાખ્યા તો તમારા જેવી કોઈ સ્ત્રી જ આપી શકે !! 🙂
              જુઓ, real life માં કદી પણ black કે white નથી હોતું. હમેશા grey shades જોવા મળે છે. એટલે practical મનુષ્ય એ આદર્શ્તાવાદ છોડવો જ સારો.


            • Bhumika Shah

              July 25, 2011 at 2:06 PM

              “જુઓ, real life માં કદી પણ black કે white નથી હોતું. હમેશા grey shades જોવા મળે છે. એટલે practical મનુષ્ય એ આદર્શ્તાવાદ છોડવો જ સારો. ”

              – આવું બ્રહ્મજ્ઞાન “આદર્શ પતિ એટલે?” એ પ્રશ્ન ના જવાબ માં જ સુઝે છે પ્રભુ!

              “આદર્શ પત્ની એટલે? ” – એવો પ્રશ્ન પૂછો તો- આદર્શ , સંસ્કારી, સુશીલ , ઘરેલું , સારી રસોઈ બનાવે એવી, વિગેરે વિગેરે જ સંભળાય સાહેબ!


              શું તમે રીયલ લાઈફ માં તમારી પત્ની ના ગ્રે કે બ્લેક શેડ ને સ્વીકારી શકસો? વાત એને ગ્રે કે બ્લેક માંથી વ્હાઈટ માં “ચેન્જ” કરવાની નહિ , એના ગ્રે ને ખુશી થી દિલ થી સ્વીકારવાની છે!
              — ક્યારેય નહિ!


            • Bhumika Shah

              July 25, 2011 at 2:09 PM

              @કેકે ભાઈ
              નો પર્સનલ બાયસ ઓર ઓફેન્સ ઇન્તેન્દેદ !



            • KK

              July 25, 2011 at 4:53 PM

              બીજા લોકો નું ખબર નથી, પણ મને hypocrite થવું ફાવતું નથી.
              બડાઈ મારવાનું intention નથી પણ, હા, મેં મારી પત્ની ની નબળાઈઓ (grey shades) ને સ્વીકારી છે અને ક્યારે પણ એને white માં ચેન્જ કરવાની કોશિશ નથી કરી. એટલેજ કહ્યુંતુ કે એકતા કપૂર છાપ black કે white જેવી પત્ની (કે પતિ) હોવા કરતા તો ના હોય એ વધારે સારું કારણ કે એવી વ્યક્તિનું existance જ ના હોય શકે.


            • Aakanksha

              July 26, 2011 at 9:59 PM

              તો તો પછી આદર્શ જોડી જેવું પણ નહિં હોય નહિં? અને એટલે જ હજી પણ અહિયાં કમેન્ટ્સનો વરસાદ ચાલુ છે…. ગ્રેટ!!!!


            • KK

              July 27, 2011 at 11:45 AM

              જેમ ભૂમિકા એ કહ્યું એમ વાત તમારા પાર્ટનર ને “ગ્રે કે બ્લેક માંથી વ્હાઈટ માં “ચેન્જ” કરવાની નહિ , એના ગ્રે ને ખુશી થી દિલ થી સ્વીકારવાની છે”.
              જે જોડી આવું કરી શકે એને તમે આદર્શ જોડી નું લેબલ આપી શકો.
              એક રીતે જોવા જઈએ તો આદર્શ પત્ની/પતિ/જોડી “રેલેટીવ ટર્મ્સ” છે. મારી વ્યાખ્યા મુજબ જે આદર્શ છે એ તમારી વ્યાખ્યા મુજબ આદર્શ ના પણ હોય શકે. પર્સન ટુ પર્સન ચેન્જ થશે. એટલે આ વસ્તુ ને generalize કરવું પોસીબલ નથી.


  15. arpita

    July 20, 2011 at 3:45 PM

    what you think of Ayn Rand?


    • zeena rey

      July 21, 2011 at 5:57 PM

      arpita……..rand was a beautiful, very stylish,,,,,,,,,,,,,mindful lady………….used all her power of mind to let everyone revolve around her…..she fascinatingly put every point to let her will win………

      her last works & decisions failed her………she cant forgive or forget…….and it was not easy for her……..

      sorry without knowing u,i m writing u as i read everything of rand when i was in college…….
      i was lucky that i just read and didnt get inspired………

      sorry jv…….mind if i share Arpita’s QQQQQQQ………with u ….as i liked it……
      its just my view….


      • zeena rey

        July 21, 2011 at 6:11 PM

        arpita……..have u anything of rand…….if so……..can u pass…me…….
        i liked her twists and turns of emotions,she just can spell u……..
        though i read rajneeeeesh,jibhraan,o.wilde,………still man…….rand was…..a lady with pen in one hand………..and cigarette in other…….its not anything like women liberation & all stuff……..

        and nice to meet u…….

        my id is


  16. Shyam j Desai

    July 20, 2011 at 5:58 PM

    Do you believe in friendship ??
    I guess people are with you , only if the success is with you or the whole group is same / all are same .


  17. Mihir patel

    July 20, 2011 at 7:12 PM

    Sir, tame lagan kem nathi karya??????(seriously answer aapjo.. personal question 6 bt tame kai rite srudy karyu n kai rite aa profession ma 6o e tamara article ma already lakhyu 6.. even tamaro matruprem n pitruprem pn tamara article ma dekhayo 6 to aa babat ma pn kaik kaho.. atyare tamaro answer mane gano helpful thai sake em 6 etle plz..)


  18. vpj100

    July 20, 2011 at 7:19 PM

    jaybhai…same pitch…for theme.
    સ્થિતપ્રજ્ઞ = J .V .


  19. Ravi Mistry

    July 20, 2011 at 8:00 PM

    Sirji…”The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne vishe tamara shu views chhe ?


  20. keval jani

    July 20, 2011 at 10:13 PM

    koi 1 vastu jeni tame dil thi i66a rakhi hoy pan haju melvi na hoy. [ its not abt prize ]

    dark knight na joker ne beat kare evu koi zakkas performance kayu ? [ domestic n international ]

    jo bhagvan tamne koi avtar dharan karva kahe to , krishna bhagvan sivay kayu character choose karo ?


    • zeena rey

      July 21, 2011 at 7:20 PM

      not bad…jani……….jay will be happy with ur QQQQQQQQQQQQQqs……….


  21. sanket

    July 21, 2011 at 9:22 PM

    જયભાઈ પહેલો આટલો interactive બ્લોગ છે આ. મારા સવાલો.
    ૧. ટેલિવિઝનમાં ફિલ્મોની જેમ સેન્સર બોર્ડની જરૂર છે ?? તમે શું માનો છો??
    ૨. અમુક દેશોમાં prostitution લીગલ છે. હોવું જોઈએ?? ભારતમાં લાગુ થવું જોઈએ??


    • ketan lakhani

      July 25, 2011 at 11:01 PM

      ૧.મને તો લાગે છે કે ફિલ્મો માં પણ સેન્સેર બોર્ડ ના હોવું જોઈએ,કારણ કે દરેક વ્યક્તિ ને ખાસ કરીને એક સર્જક ને સર્જનાત્મક સ્વતંત્રતા મળવી જોઈએ.અને જો કોઈ વસ્તુ ખરાબ હશે અથવા માણવા લાયક નહિ હોય તો દર્શાકોજ એને reject કરી દેશે.
      ૨.હા ભારત માં પણ prostitution લીગલ હોવું જોઈએ,કારણ કે prostitution નું સંપૂર્ણ નિયંત્રણ કોઈ પણ દેશ માં સંભવ નથી.આપણા દેશ માં prostitution ઇનલીગલ છે તો શું તેનું અસ્તિત્વ નથી?પ્રાચીન ભારત માં પણ ગણિકાઓ નું અસ્તિત્વ હતુજ.prostitution નું પણ ગુજરાત ની દારૂબંધી જેવું છે,જ્યાં પ્રતિબંધ હોય ત્યાજ સહુ થી વધારે પીવાય.prostitution કરતા પણ વધારે ગંભીર ગુના છે બળાત્કાર અને બાળ વિવાહ.સમાજ ને જરૂર છે માત્ર માનસિકતા બદલવાની અને આમ પણ જે પરિસ્થિતિ ને બદલી નથી શકતા તેનો સ્વીકાર કરવામાજ ડહાપણ છે.


  22. mayur chauhan

    July 22, 2011 at 8:03 AM

    atyare je chale 6 evu caste based reservation hovu joiye k nai?kem?


  23. Parixit Odedara

    July 22, 2011 at 8:58 AM

    Sir, you wrote an article about Roman Polanski, would you tell me the aprox date/month when it was published?


  24. shailesh

    July 22, 2011 at 9:55 AM

    who is yor favorite heroine from literature history ?


  25. Parixit Odedara

    July 23, 2011 at 2:03 PM

    Sir, have you been in any period of your life addicted to smoke/alcohol or anything else? What’s your stand on Guj being a dry state?


  26. ketan lakhani

    July 25, 2011 at 10:31 PM

    hello……..friends……and mr.jv.
    hu tamne chella 7 varsh thi vachu 6u,but i am first time on this blog.
    its nice to search you mr.jay vasavada.


  27. Navneet Rafaliya

    July 26, 2011 at 3:21 AM

    Is it necessary to get married?


  28. Parul Solanki

    July 30, 2011 at 1:55 PM

    we are same in one thing it’s about READING OSHO. ALL IN ONE ya u r right.


  29. akshayx

    August 1, 2011 at 4:44 PM

    To jv sir: Ur articles nd speches abt love r great! Bt didnt u love any grl in ur life? Or u loved bt due to any beriars u cud nt be with her?
    Is dat so..?
    I knw its personal, bt im sure everyone besides me is also intreste in dis q’s ans….
    Btw, u truly rock!


  30. Jigar

    August 1, 2011 at 10:10 PM



  31. Hitesh

    August 11, 2011 at 5:04 PM

    What is ur daily routine when u r at home? I mean ketla vagye utho 6o, uthine pa6a ungi jao 6o k nahi?, ratre ketla vagye ungo 6o? etc etc

    Ane ha Jyotindra Dave saheb na ek-be lekh vanchela 6 “Vehla Uthnara Virrudh” and “moda uthnara ni tarfen ma” the titles are not correct but want to know ur take on that tooo.

    And sir have bahu thayu ho, reply karvana chalu karo bapu….k pa6i ung bahu aave 6 ????? just kidding. love ur writings and thoughts sirji. bye


  32. sudarshan

    December 19, 2011 at 8:35 PM

    hadn’t read Rajneesh do you think you would have been the same JV as you are now?


  33. Hardik prajapati

    March 18, 2012 at 7:14 PM

    Tame copy-pest vishe article lakhyo hato…Parntu hu kyarek story lakhava besu chu. .Tyare kashu navu lakhi j shakatu nathi…Aa 12th science to badhi creativity j khoi nakhavi 6,!
    Any suggestion!


  34. Madhuri

    August 17, 2012 at 4:03 PM

    Would you like to share your idea of learning English?



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